Entertainment

“I wanted to turn the narrative on black fathers not being present in their children’s lives,” Winfrey said

One thing Oprah Winfrey knows for sure: her father, Vernon Winfrey, is an honorable man.

“I have a father who is responsible for me, even though he knows I could be someone else’s child,” she told People.

To honor the millions of incredible black fathers, Winfrey and Sterling K. Brown co-hosted a PRIVATE special titled Honoring Our Kings, Celebrating Black Fatherhood black.

The show features conversations with Dwyane Wade, John Legend, D.L. Hughley and many other artists, along with Andra Day’s performance for her father.

“I wanted to turn the table on that narrative of Black fathers not being present in their children’s lives,” says Winfrey. “I remember the very first time I was doing a show on parenting, on single parents. And my way of showing or widening the screen at the time was just to include a Black father in that group of parents, but not make a big deal about it. We got a Latina parent and we got a Black parent and we got a gay parent. And I remember a woman standing up and later saying she had never seen a Black father reading to his children. That was not an image anybody had seen on screen. And so a lot of the white people who were watching the show were like, ‘That’s a foreign concept to me.'”

Winfrey continues, “It’s chipped away at the fabric of who we are as a society and a world. The images on the evening news or portrayals in films, gangsters, stories that show absentee fathers, or focus on men being in prison, away from their children and not caring about their children, that’s what you’ve heard, but that isn’t what we know and feel.”

The mogul details her own father’s story, which she has told before.

“My mother and father never married,” she says. “They had 𝓈ℯ𝓍 one time. He gets a letter after I’m born saying, ‘Send money. You have a daughter.’ And the reason he did, he said, is because it could have been him. And the responsibility that he took for me, not just a responsibility but care and love and direction and support as a young teenage girl, is the thing that made the difference in me being who I am now or somebody you would have never, ever heard of.”

“I saw that over and over again in my father’s barbershop. Men would come in, hardworking men, doing everything they could in their lives to support their families, working sometimes two and three jobs to do that,” she adds. “So that’s the story I know of Black fathers — the ones I grew up with and the man I know. The narrative of the absentee father, it’s not accurate that that is the only picture. That’s what I want to say.”

Personal stories featured include single father Charles Johnson of Smyrna, Georgia, who is raising his two sons after his wife died following the birth of their youngest child. He gets a surprise from an A-lister.

Another, says Winfrey, is a “military dad who lost his son in Afghanistan and was going to jump off a bridge and decided not to jump when he heard his son’s voice saying ‘Dad, don’t do it. This isn’t the way.'”

Winfrey calls the special the “most important, meaningful, exciting show I’ve ever done for OWN.”

“I’m excited,” she says, “because I know that the feelings that I had, the goosebumps, the ‘ah-ha’s, the hair-raising moments that I experienced, the tears that I and Sterling K. Brown experienced while we were taping it, I know the rest of the audience is going to feel that.”

The celebration of Black fathers has been in the works for a while, she notes.

“I wanted it to be a big celebration, like a red carpet, bring in the fathers, their families, having celebrities honor them,” she says. “And because of COVID we had to scale the whole thing down. I mean, I really, I had this dream to do it in 2020, and, of course, after lockdown happened, we could not do that. But this is certainly just the beginning. Next year we’re going to blow it out.”

In PEOPLE’s exclusive clip from the OWN special, Winfrey and Brown reveal to a group of deserving fathers that they’re being treated to a family vacation in Hawaii, courtesy of Hilton. The special gift is to help the families “recharge, reconnect and renew bonds,” Winfrey says in the footage.

Honoring Our Kings, Celebrating Black Fatherhood premieres Tuesday at 9 p.m. ET on OWN.

Related Posts

Trump has higher favorability numbers than Taylor Swift, poll finds

More Democrats than Republicans have favorable views of Taylor Swift, according to poll. A new poll has found that former President Trump has higher favorability numbers among likely voters compared…

Diddy’s arrest caught on video: See the fallen rapper in handcuffs at NYC hotel

The last time Sean “Diddy” Combs was seen in grainy surveillance video was under very different circumstances. The fallen rapper was seen kicking his ex girlfriend Cassie Ventura down a…

Rafael Nadal Comparte la Alegría de Ser Padre: ¡El Dulce Video de Rafa Jr. Causa Sensación con Su Sonrisa Radiante!

Rafa Jr. Brilla en el Bastad Open 2024: El Apoyo Emocional de la Familia Nadal     El hijo de Rafael Nadal, Rafa Jr., ha sabido robarse el…

Rafael Nadal y su esposa Xisca Perello disfrutan de un paseo relajado en su lujoso catamarán de 2,6 millones de euros en España

Rafael Nadal, uno de los tenistas más exitosos del mundo, se dio un capricho al visitar el lujoso yate Blue Ice en el puerto de Cannes, Francia, acompañado…

Venus Williams Reveals She’s ‘Honored to Be Recognized as a Sports Role Model and to Collaborate with Team Barbie’

Global tennis icon Venus Williams has been honored with her very own Barbie doll as part of a new line celebrating female athletes and encouraging young girls to…

Nick Jonas Poses with Mom Denise and Wife Priyanka Chopra as They Visit Pier with Daughter Malti Marie

The couple welcomed their daughter in 2022. Nick Jonas is spending some quality time with all the women in his life. On Monday, the singer, 31, shared a round-up…